Syrian Kurdistan: Caught between One Hatred and the Other
PublicationDec 17, 2019
By Amina Hussein
OCTOBER 8th 2019, it’s 6 am and I am in Erbil in the Iraqi side of Kurdistan. I have just arrived from Barcelona where I have been living since 2006 and completed my degree in journalism. The sun is shining, casting its rays onto the windows of the prefabricated houses in Qostapa refugee camp.
I start getting ready, the car will be here any minute now. I am moved and enthusiastic about going back home, it’s only the second time in 14 years. I close my suitcase and say goodbye to my cousin who has been living in this camp with her family for the last four years. It takes four hours to reach the border with Syrian Kurdistan, I look at the mountainous landscape, it’s dry and wild unlike the memory I carry of my first trip when it was spring and all things seemed abundant.
At 11 am, I arrive in Fishkhabur where the borders meet between the two Kurdistan. I cross the Tigris river, then on to the paperwork. Two hours later, I load my suitcase into the truck that transports our luggage while people travel by bus over the bridge towards Rojava. The trip lasts less than five minutes: It’s the same people, the same language, same foods and traditions. If it were not for all the hassle we go through when crossing from one side to the other, you would never know we are supposed to be different people.
My sister is waiting on the other side. She’s always lived here which means nine years of war. We embrace and kiss and cry. We have two more hours to go and it’s almost 4 pm when we make it home. The trip was exhausting, as we arrive there are more kisses and welcomes and tears. When my sister goes to the kitchen, I take a moment to connect my smart phone to the internet.
Headlines: “Turkey has started its military operation to claim the North and East of Syria.” This is not the first time that Ankara attacks here, In 2018, there was a similar Turkey-led offensive. They took the town of Afrin, a mostly Syrian Kurdish town in the North. As a result, half a million-people fled.
I have never been so close to a war zone, down where the fight rages. This is a live war broadcasted in television, we are being massacred but no one is helping us. You can’t help but think you will be the next victim, one more to join the millions of anonymous women and girls they call casualties.
I turn my attention to the local media, it’s broadcasting from the most bombarded areas: Serekaniye and Tel Abyad. I see people fleeing from the bombs, jet fighters circle the sky as reporters runs after witnesses. My sister puts the food on the table. Nobody eats, instead we look at each other without saying a word. We don’t speak about fear. She says “don’t worry” and “we can’t break down in front of the children.” I nod, but I know that they understand everything, they have known nothing but war.
Suddenly, we hear close-by explosions, everything is shaking in the house, my nephews and niece start screaming and crying. I step outside: three bombs one after the other. The night is long; hours stretch on forever but we still have light and the Internet. Some relatives show up after escaping their own town. We don’t know how it’s going to end. Will we see the sun again? Will we live? Thousands of lives are at stake.
Days come and go, but nothing changes besides the offensives that turn even more violent and destructive. The first victims are children, Sara and Muhammed aged 8 and 10 are siblings, they are playing in the street when the bomb hits, he dies and she loses a leg. Another family of 5, Christians, sees all its member wounded, except for the mother who dies on the spot.
The Turkish army along with the help of radical groups backed by Ankara such as Faileq al-Sharqiye or Ahrar al-Sham attack every village close to the Turkish border. People don’t know where to hide, hospitals are overflowing. The mosque calls for blood donation, it’s chaos, it’s war. When the bombing stops in the morning, people take advantage of the intermission to bury the dead.
My own village is 500 meters from the Turkish border, I travel there in an armored car, regular taxis won’t take me there.
The town is empty; I walk through memories of my childhood. I remember the neighbors and how life took place in those plazas where I used to play with my girlfriends. Most houses are abandoned or destroyed.
My own house as it turns out is in rubbles which triggers an acute pain. During the Syrian war, these areas surrounding the Turkish border had remained intact except for Kobane wrecked by the so-called Islamic State. Now it’s our turn. I try to open a remaining door of my house but I can’t. it’s empty, it’s destroyed, it’s deserted.
My family fled in 2013. Now everyone lives in Germany. I close my eyes and let souvenirs take me back. The spot where my mom used to sit, how we ate together in the yard, kids chasing one another. I get back into my car. An airplane is hovering above and it gives me shivers, are they after us? The driver is racing now as if advised of imminent danger. Fortunately, we make it back okay.
Over two weeks, 300,000 people escape from their villages. They are living in school premises with absolutely nothing more than the clothes on their backs. Each classroom shelters three to four families, they thought they were gone for a few hours or perhaps a few days. They had no idea that this would last for months, years or forever. In the North of Syria, more than 60 schools are packed with refugees. This in turn keeps 100,000 children out of school. The only help available comes front local NGOs – the international ones withdrew from this area because it presents “maximum danger.”People are direly disillusioned. They think that the war will kill them anyway, that their deaths are only postponed by an agreement or the other.
Bombs fall very close to our home so we sleep in the streets for a few nights. When bombs drop, people go on automatic-pilot, they grab the children and run out. But what to do when the attacks are taking place everywhere? You run towards the unknown along strangers. But at a time when everything seems cold and harsh, people are helping each other. They share food, blankets or water. We can feel the same pain.
I start writing about the war. It’s painful to convey the emotions or to describe people’s expressions. I write about my nephew who can’t sleep, he hugs me and says “auntie, I don’t want to die.” It kills me each time he says that so I play videos and songs on my mobile phone to distract him from the rumbles. “What did you bring along?” asks a boy to another who had fled his home. He has nothing so the first boy brings him a toy and they start playing together.
During the following month, I live with bombs and fear; I hear children cry; I see people looking for a safe place to hide. I share everyone’s pain and look at mothers as they bury their children.
Words fall short of conveying what war is. It’s impossible to fathom that a few weeks prior, this was a peaceful area. It hurts to realize how betrayed people fill by the mute international community.
Rojava paid a heavy price in its fight against the Islamic state. More than 12,000 young people died trying to free Syria from terrorists. It is the same people who today are fighting today. I find that the media is not explaining what’s happening here. The international press left after the first week of conflict. So it’s up to citizens and local press to post their genocide on social media and share images from the daily life of five million of us caught between one hatred and the other.
I have come home indeed; I stand close to the innumerable anonymous, people who suffer the war aren’t those who trigger it. But don’t we know this already? An eye for an eye still makes the world go blind.